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		<title>Not my mother&#8217;s submission</title>
		<link>http://kbonikowsky.wordpress.com/2012/04/27/not-my-mothers-submission/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2012 18:52:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My mother was a submissive wife. (I say was, because my father passed away 8 years ago.) When my parents were reviewed by their mission board before entering the mission field, the board told her she was &#8220;too&#8221; submissive.* And this was in the 50&#8242;s!  She believed Ephesians 5:22 was her role, and she obeyed. My [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kbonikowsky.wordpress.com&#038;blog=3396788&#038;post=3842&#038;subd=kbonikowsky&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The hope that is in me</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Apr 2012 05:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ I was challenged. &#8220;Why do you have to write about gender equality?&#8221; In the last year, I have flipped. For some, it is a mystery to be solved. What about Kay&#8217;s past contributed to her current obsession with women&#8217;s role in God&#8217;s kingdom? I honor those who ask. I answer with passion. But, for those who don&#8217;t [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kbonikowsky.wordpress.com&#038;blog=3396788&#038;post=3816&#038;subd=kbonikowsky&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Problem Passages: Ephesians 5:21</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Mar 2012 19:02:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kbonikowsky</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What does submission mean? Does submission require a leader? Can it be mutual? The Comp and Egal debate continues.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kbonikowsky.wordpress.com&#038;blog=3396788&#038;post=3727&#038;subd=kbonikowsky&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Does Someone Have to be in Charge? (Part 5)</title>
		<link>http://kbonikowsky.wordpress.com/2012/03/21/does-someone-have-to-be-in-charge-part-5/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Mar 2012 17:11:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kbonikowsky</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Authority]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA["Best friends do no need one of them to be a leader. In that case they wouldn’t be best friends— they’d be hero and sidekick. "KR<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kbonikowsky.wordpress.com&#038;blog=3396788&#038;post=3780&#038;subd=kbonikowsky&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Does Someone Have to Be in Charge? (Part 4)</title>
		<link>http://kbonikowsky.wordpress.com/2012/03/17/does-someone-have-to-be-in-charge-part-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Mar 2012 16:49:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kbonikowsky</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Is Jesus’ submission to the Father’s authority human and temporal, or divine and eternal?<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kbonikowsky.wordpress.com&#038;blog=3396788&#038;post=3764&#038;subd=kbonikowsky&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Does Someone Have to Be in Charge? (Part 3)</title>
		<link>http://kbonikowsky.wordpress.com/2012/03/01/does-someone-have-to-be-in-charge-part-3/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2012 18:22:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kbonikowsky</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So where did the idea come from, that God has ordained top-down chains of command, both in earthly and in spiritual relationships, with human authority structures in every area of life? From Plato.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kbonikowsky.wordpress.com&#038;blog=3396788&#038;post=3753&#038;subd=kbonikowsky&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Does Someone Have to Be in Charge? (Part 2)</title>
		<link>http://kbonikowsky.wordpress.com/2012/02/29/does-someone-have-to-be-in-charge-part-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Feb 2012 15:19:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kbonikowsky</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In God's kingdom, man's heirarchy is irrelevant. <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kbonikowsky.wordpress.com&#038;blog=3396788&#038;post=3737&#038;subd=kbonikowsky&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Does Someone Have To Be In Charge? (part 1)</title>
		<link>http://kbonikowsky.wordpress.com/2012/02/27/does-someone-have-to-be-in-charge-part-1/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Feb 2012 15:04:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kbonikowsky</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA["God in the Old Testament seems so reluctant to establish authority structures in Israel, so careful to limit the ones He does establish, and so ready to overturn human assumptions about who should be in authority." KR<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kbonikowsky.wordpress.com&#038;blog=3396788&#038;post=3716&#038;subd=kbonikowsky&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>What about the boys?</title>
		<link>http://kbonikowsky.wordpress.com/2012/02/06/what-about-the-boys/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 18:34:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kbonikowsky</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This post is a bit haphazard, but I hope you&#8217;ll stick with it to the end. First, I look at a timely study on the role men play in global gender equality. Then, I explore the Christian gender debate as a tragedy to the name of Christ. And lastly, I tie the two together and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kbonikowsky.wordpress.com&#038;blog=3396788&#038;post=3684&#038;subd=kbonikowsky&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Kay Bonikowsky: God Gave Christianity a Blended Feel</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 18:28:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kbonikowsky</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8230; but John Piper wants to divide the sexes and put God on one side. Or more specifically, God is already on one side, and He&#8217;s invited men to join Him. John Piper&#8217;s recent statements at the Desiring God: Man, Manhood &#38; Ministry Conference sadden and infuriate me. Here&#8217;s a taste, if you can stomach it: [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kbonikowsky.wordpress.com&#038;blog=3396788&#038;post=3677&#038;subd=kbonikowsky&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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